Flirting is a basic instinct, part of a human nature. It is a universal and essential aspect of human interaction. We see flirting as a fun thing; a man flirts with a woman in order to attract her, to ask her on a date. There are two reasons why people flirt. Guys which are flirting for fun do this because they might seen a beautiful woman and flirt with her, in order to meet her better, to have fun with her, but not to start a relationship. The others, which are flirting with intent, are more selective about their choice, and want to meet someone for a possible relationship. The best places to flirt are parties, bars, clubs, disco, and at the workplace. The first key to successful flirting is not an ability to show off and impress, but the knack of conveying that you like someone. However, you are single and you decided to go to pick up some girls. You dressed up to impress, smell good and start to flirt with a beautiful woman from the club you are. After you use non verbal flirting like body language, eye contact, which indicates intense emotion, or gestures which can signal interest, attraction and invitation, you see that the beautiful woman is responding you with a big smile and starts a conversation with you. After you compliment her and make her feel special with you, she tells you that she is married. Is this a big problem for you? If not, if you want to approach her anyway you have to compliment her, show interest about her, and be sincere about it. Jerks hit all the time on married women. That is why you have to show her that she is interesting to you.